Last week, I asked you a question…

What percentage of your stuff would you have to let go of before you would feel good in your space? 

A lot of you answered…thank you so much for taking the time to reach out and share.   

Some of you named percentages, some of you wrote me paragraphs…and a few of you even told me you haven’t been able to sleep in your own bed in years.  

The percentages were all over the place. From 0% all the way up to 98%. But the most common answer, by far, was 

50%

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One thing I see again and again when I work with people is this quiet frustration:

“I want to be organized. So why does this still feel so hard?”

Most people assume it’s a motivation issue. Or a discipline issue. Or that they just haven’t found the right trick yet.

But in reality, there’s a much simpler reason.

Most people were never actually taught how to get organized.

They were told to clean up.
They were told to get rid of things.
They were told to “just deal with it.”

But very few people were taught a process.

So when organizing feels overwhelming, emotional, or hard to sustain, it’s often not about effort at all. It’s about not having a clear framework to work from.

What Happens Without a Framework

Without steps, organizing usually goes like this:

• You decide it’s time.
• You pick a big project.
• You dive in.

And then you hit decision fatigue. Or you get stuck halfway through. Or you end up with a space that looks better for a minute…but doesn’t stay that way.

That’s not because organizing is inherently hard. It’s because you’re trying to solve a complex problem without a map.

I talk more about this in this short video—why organizing tends to fall apart, even when the intention is strong, and what you can do instead:

What Actually Changes Things

Over the years, I’ve found that organizing becomes so much more manageable when you have:

• A clear starting point
• A sequence to follow
• And a way to make decisions without second-guessing everything

When those are in place, the work gets lighter. Not instant. Not perfect. But clearer.

That’s why I created the 10 Steps to Finally Get (& Stay) Organized.

It’s a simple, repeatable framework you can use for any space in your home. Instead of guessing what to do next, you always know where you are in the process—and what step comes next.

People often tell me the biggest shift isn’t just their space looking better. It’s the feeling of having their footing again. Of knowing how to move forward without spinning.

This Isn’t About Doing More.

Getting organized isn’t about tackling everything at once.

It’s about having a way to approach the work that makes sense—so when you do have time or energy, you know how to use it.

If you’ve been circling the same organizing projects for a while, this might be the missing piece.

Learn more about the 10 Steps to Finally Get (& Stay) Organized HERE.

Sometimes the problem isn’t that you haven’t tried hard enough.

It’s that no one ever handed you the steps.

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It’s not because you’re “not motivated.” It’s not because you can’t “stick with it.” And it’s definitely not because you’re not capable.

Most organizing goals fail because they’re way too big for the energy/time/focus you have available.

Every January, people tell me their organizing goals. They say:

“I’m finally going to organize all my paperwork.”
“I’m tackling the attic!”
“I’m clearing the whole office.”

And listen…these are beautiful intentions. But they’re also the biggest, hardest, heaviest projects in your home. They’re emotional. They take time. And they deliver the least visual payoff, which makes it really hard to stay motivated.

What you actually need isn’t a giant project.

You need a win. 🏆

A small, doable, confidence-building win. Something you can finish in 20-30 minutes. Something that lets your brain go “Oh, I can do this!”

That’s how trust is built. And that’s how momentum starts.

I explain why big organizing goals backfire (and what to do instead) in this short video. Watch it here:

Now, here’s the other reason organizing goals collapse…

Most of us were never taught how to get organized.

We set a goal…but no one ever taught us the actual steps.

Not the emotional steps. Not the practical steps. And definitely not the steps that work for your brain and your life.

That’s why I created the 10 Steps to Finally Get (& Stay) Organized.

It gives you a clear, repeatable framework so you always know what to do next, how to make decisions without spiraling, and how to organize in a way that actually works for your brain and your life—not some picture-perfect fantasy.

When you take the 10 Steps Class, you’ll get:

• The full 10 Steps framework—the practical and emotional pieces you were never taught
• Live coaching + Q&A with me
• Help thinking through your specific organizing challenges
• Support that helps progress stick (instead of fizzling out a few weeks in)

If you’ve been waiting to get organized but the goals keep slipping…this might be your moment.

You don’t need to white-knuckle your way through organizing. You don’t need to keep setting goals that collapse under the weight of real life. You just need the right-sized steps—and a coach who believes in you. 🙋‍

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As we walked into the room, they felt overwhelmed almost immediately. There was a lot to do, the energy felt heavy, and about 20 minutes in they said: 

“Maybe this is too much. Maybe we should switch to an easier project.”

They were feeling overwhelmed and getting ready to abandon the bedroom project altogether.

So, I asked them to pause.

Not because they needed to push harder or do more. But because the bedroom is one of the most important spaces in the house to approach gently.

The bedroom is where we sleep. Where we let our guard down. Where our nervous system is supposed to feel safe enough to rest.  

And because of that, it can be a surprisingly charged space… 

There can be relationship energy activated here. Or body image issues connected to our clothing may arise. We can experience sleep struggles.  

And often, we’re reading, scrolling, unwinding, or overstimulating ourselves without realizing it.  

So, when people tell me they want to “organize their bedroom,” I often slow them down. 

Because sometimes the goal of organizing isn’t to do a full, deep, color-coded overhaul.  Sometimes the goal is much simpler. 

Sometimes the goal is to protect your peace.

Right now, the world is loud. It’s heavy, fast, and overwhelming.  Many people are carrying way more than they realize, and it shows up most clearly at night.

If your bedroom doesn’t feel peaceful, you don’t need to “Marie Kondo” the entire space.

You just might need to remove one thing. 

Something that doesn’t feel right. One thing that disturbs your sleep. Or something that pulls your focus in a direction you don’t want it to go. 

That could look like: 

• Removing a book you’re not reading from your nightstand 

• Clearing the top of your dresser so your eyes can rest 

• Moving your charging cord to the bathroom so you aren’t tempted to scroll at night 

• Unfollowing someone online who activates comparison or stress in you 

• Unsubscribing from an email that hijacks your nervous system 

• Letting go of something, physical or digital, that no longer belongs in this season of your life 

This counts as organizing. 

This counts as self-care.

Protecting your peace isn’t indulgent. It’s essential.

It’s self-regulation.  Its boundaries. And it’s choosing what (and who) gets access to you.

So today, take one small step.

Ask yourself: 

What’s one thing I can remove to protect my peace?  

That’s it. That’s the work.

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• Getting rid of stuff
• Buying containers
• Making systems

And, yes, those things matter. But if that’s all you’re doing, it’s no wonder it feels like you’re stuck on an organizing hamster wheel.

Because organizing isn’t just a task. It’s a life skill.

And that skill goes way beyond clever organizing hacks and folding techniques.

The best organizing results come from cross-training.

Think about athletes… NFL players have been known to train in ballet to improve balance and coordination. Weightlifters do yoga to protect their joints and stay mobile.

They’re not doing it because it’s trendy. They’re doing it because training only one way creates an imbalance.

Organizing is the same.

If the only muscle you’re building is “hands-on decluttering,” you’re skipping the inner skills that make organizing sustainable. You need more than that.

You also need nervous system regulation, decision-making support, patience, creativity, and support.

That’s where cross-training comes in.

Here are a few simple ways to cross-train your organizing projects:

MEDITATE

Organizing requires presence.

Taking a few quiet minutes each day to breathe, be still, and step away from screens will help build your ability to respond instead of react. That pause is what helps you make better decisions when you’re standing in front of a pile wondering what to do.

As Einstein said, “We can’t solve a problem from the energy that caused it.” Stillness is one of the best starting places for facing the chaos in our lives.

RESEARCH

Sometimes organizing stalls because of unanswered questions.

Where do dead batteries go? What about paint? Electronics? Medications?

Taking time outside of hands-on organizing sessions to figure these things out removes friction later. When you already know where things go, actions feel lighter, and momentum builds.

Less friction = more follow-through

BUILD

Support matters.

If something physically blocks you, organizing will stall every time. Heavy furniture, high shelves, limited energy… All of these things have an impact on our organizing progress.

Finding someone to help you move things, having a step stool where you need it, or asking for support isn’t a weakness, it’s smart self-care.

Organizing works best when your environment supports you.

PLAY

Joy isn’t a reward for finishing.

When our homes feel chaotic, many people delay having fun until everything is “handled.” It’s common to feel like we have to earn our rest. But joy is actually fuel. When your system feels nourished, organizing stops feeling like punishment.

Take a walk. Listen to music. Laugh with a friend. Grab an ice cream. Dance in your living room with your dog.

These moments build capacity, and capacity makes change possible.

CREATE

Organizing isn’t just logical, it’s creative.

Movement, art, music, or even doodling activates the part of your brain that imagines new possibilities and helps you invent systems that actually work for you.

Some of the best organizing systems don’t come from books. They come from your own lived experience. You just need to make a little space to express your creativity each day.

Organizing doesn’t only happen in your closet or at the Container Store.

It happens when you pause. When you ask for help. When you make room for joy. And when you trust your instincts.

That’s cross-training. And it’s what makes organizing stick. 

Comment below and tell me one way you can start your organizing cross-training journey this week. 

Cheering you on as you train your way to a clutter-free finish line. 🎉 

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The impossible, maddening belief that you’re somehow supposed to “get it all done.”

I can’t tell you how many people come to me panicked, overwhelmed, or convinced that something is fundamentally wrong with them because they can’t keep up with their overflowing to-do list.

They want the “secret system” or the magic trick that finally makes everything manageable.

And I hate being the bearer of this truth (but it’s exactly this truth that sets people free).

You’re always going to have more to do than time to do it.

Not because you’re behind. Or because you’re disorganized. And not because you’re doing anything wrong.

But because this is modern life. The world is overflowing with inputs, demands, inboxes, notifications, expectations, and “urgent” everything. No one is keeping up. Seriously, no one.

A hundred years ago? Sure…maybe you finished your list. But today? The finish line doesn’t exist.

And the problem isn’t actually productivity. It’s anxiety.

It’s the anxious feeling of:

What if I forget to do something important?
What if I drop the ball at work?
What does it mean about me if I’m behind?
Why can’t I keep up like everyone else seems to?

Here’s the most loving truth I can offer you about your overflowing inbox and suffocating task lists…

There’s nothing wrong with you. Nothing. Zero. Not. One. Thing.

You’re not supposed to keep up with an unreasonable volume of tasks.
You’re not supposed to fight every fire.
You’re not supposed to run your body into the ground trying to be superhuman.

So instead of trying to “do it all,” here’s what I want you to try:

1-Choose your top 1-5 things you want to get done each day.
Not 25. Not your entire inbox. Just the five things that actually matter. That’s what most of us can realistically give our full energy to.

2-Let the rest go to the “Universal Task List.”
Seriously. Hand anything that doesn’t make your top 5 over to the Universe (Creator, divine timing, your future self…whatever language feels good to you) to handle for you. It’s not all yours to carry.

3-Tend to your Nervous System instead of pushing yourself harder.
Because your body is doing the work. When your anxiety is screaming, productivity crashes. But when your nervous system feels supported, everything changes.

Take a walk in nature. Do some deep breathing. Eat a snack. Watch a funny video. Sing a song you love. It doesn’t have to be complicated; it just has to bring you home to yourself.

4-Let yourself be human.
You don’t owe the world constant output. You don’t have to keep up with an impossible pace. You can choose intention over urgency. And when you do, you become far more effective and far more at peace.

Want more peaceful productivity tools? Watch this short video to learn how to feel calmer, clearer, and productive in your life:

You deserve ease. You deserve calm. You deserve a life that truly supports you.

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But before you click add to cart, I want to offer another voice. A quieter one.

Since 2020, I’ve moved seven times. Seven. 

And every single time, I’ve had to touch, pack, and carry every item I own.

And let me tell you…it’s humbling.

I’ve seen just how many things I bought with good intentions that I barely used, didn’t love, or never even opened.

Each move was a reminder that most of what we buy doesn’t end up changing our lives. It just fills our closets, our shelves, and our mental space.

So, this week, while the world is shouting “More! More! More!” I want to whisper something different:

🖤 You don’t have to buy a thing.

🖤 You don’t have to chase every deal.

🖤 You don’t have to prove your love or success through stuff.

There will always be another sale. But your peace of mind (and your space) is worth far more than anything in a shopping cart.

So if you need permission to sit this one out, here it is.

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You know when you’re organizing something…and it’s almost perfect. But then there’s one tiny detail that makes your eye twitch every time you look at it?

And it makes the whole space feel chaotic, and you find yourself avoiding that room at all costs…and then clutter starts to mysteriously build up again?

I call that frustrating challenge The Imperfection.

For Shawna, The Imperfection was a giant cat box. She had a huge utility closet in her mudroom. It was the best and most functional storage space in her house. And (thankfully) there was a plug in there, so the cat box being stored there felt like a perfect win…

• Privacy for the cat ✅
• Out of sight ✅
• No smell ✅

Now, don’t get me wrong—this solution worked…

Except for the fact that the closet door had to stay open six inches at all times so the cat could get in and out.

And this closet was the first thing you saw when you walked into the house. And it wasn’t a cute closet, either—it was a functional utility space with mismatched boxes and random gear.

Shawna was frustrated. “It ruins everything,” she said. “If I see clutter, I create clutter. It snowballs.”

This is what I call THE IMPERFECTION.

It’s that one element that isn’t ideal and feels like it ruins the rest of the system.

That thing that whispers “Why even bother?”

The Imperfection doesn’t mean your systems are broken or unfinished. It means they’re still evolving.

Sometimes things are less than ideal. Sometimes we can’t make our homes bigger, get our doors to close all the way, or decorate the way we want to.

And inside, our inner teenager may want to fight back and rebel. But done is better than perfect.

Instead of fighting The Imperfection and feeling like getting organized is a lost cause, sometimes the best first step is acceptance. Accept that The Imperfection exists, and we need to work with it.

Then dive into possible solutions.

For Shawna’s closet, we doubled down and brainstormed solutions:

• Could we remove the closet doors and use curtains instead?
• Paint the closet interior a fun color?
• Style the left side (the side you see) to look intentional and beautiful? And then stash the messier stuff on the right, out of view?

Once Shawna accepted that THE IMPERFECTION wasn’t going away, everything shifted. She was able to pick a direction and give it a try.

She didn’t have to move the cat box—she just had to change how she saw the space. And with that, her overwhelm lifted. She made peace, and she moved forward.

The truth is that she may change the configuration of that closet a dozen times while she lives in that house. Each version is valid. And each will get better and better.

So, here’s your invitation:

What’s one IMPERFECTION in your home that’s tripping you up?

Let’s look at it together. Comment below and tell me what it is—I’ll help you brainstorm how to turn it into a win.

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She had been in the Chaos to Calm Community for awhile now. She was showing up on calls, doing the work…but no matter how much she did, she still felt stuck.

Like a lot of people, she wanted to dive into biggest, hardest clutter in her life first—the paperwork backlog, her digital files, and the emotionally-charged stuff that made her want to scream and go hide under the covers.

And that totally make sense.

When clutter is causing stress, we often zero in on the most overwhelming thing and think, “That’s the real problem! If I fix that first, everything else will fall into place.”

But the truth is that’s actually the last place to start.

When you’re burned out, stuck, or struggling, starting with your hardest clutter can leave you more frazzled, more discouraged, and more convinced that you’re just “bad at organizing” (which is 100% never true).

One month, we were focusing on organizing the Linen Closet in C2C. Beth initially said she didn’t want to do it because it wasn’t one of her problem zones.

I told her that these basic “easy” spaces are some of the most important rooms to organize.

Not because it’s glamorous. Not because it’s trendy. But because it’s a low-stakes space with zero emotional drama.

So, she jumped in and organized her Linen Closet for a few hours.

And something shifted in Beth.

There was no shame in there. No grief. No “what if I need this someday” spiral. Just sheets, towels, blankets, and a couple of extra pillow cases.

She folded. She sorted. She made decisions.

And it lit her up! 🔥

You could see it on her face. This was the first time that organizing felt empowering, instead of defeating.

That one tiny win cracked the door open. And then she kept going.

She organized her junk drawer. And then the kitchen cabinet. Then she unpacked the boxes in her garage from her last move.

This is what I call “Gateway Clutter.”

It’s the clutter that doesn’t fight back. The easy stuff. The neutral stuff. The stuff that feels like a quick and easy win.

It doesn’t have to be a linen closet. It could be:

• Your junk drawer
• The door of your fridge
• A spice rack
• Your sock drawer
• The glove compartment in your car

What matters is not where it is. What matters is how it feels.

If doesn’t feel heavy, complicated, or emotionally loaded…that’s your gateway clutter.

Because when you’re stuck, you don’t need to tackle your hardest clutter in order to “earn” getting organized.

You just need a win. 🏆

It helps you remember who you are and what you’re capable of.

What’s your gateway clutter? What space could you work on this week that won’t make you want to cry, scream, or binge scroll?

Comment below and tell me one simple win you could give yourself—just to get started.

Because this is where your power lives.

Not in pushing harder. Not in shaming yourself. Not in waiting until your whole life is “figured out.”

But in taking action today, that leaves you feeling like the powerful, incredible being you are.

You’ve got this, and I’ve got you.

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